How 5 Things CHANGES The Way You Approach Sex Toys

The variety of adult toys is surprising. Sex toys vary from purely male or purely female adult toys to toys that can be used by both sexes. Additionally, there are some sex toys that may also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.

The Purpose Of Sex Toys

Some sex toys aid the man’s erection, stimulate the female genitals to become more sensitive or provide a different feel to ‘normal’ sex. Other sex toys provide an ‘environment’ for variations in sex, for example so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to help a person who has difficulty with unaided sex to achieve sexual satisfaction. However most sex toys provide a new way to directly stimulate the female or male genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.

Using sex toys can offer new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. It can also give a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.

The usual expectation is that a masturbator provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual activity or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation provided by the sex toy.

Types of Sex Toys

Vibrating Sex Toys

Probably the most popular adult toys are ‘vibrators’ which, as the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They’re mainly utilized to stimulate the clitoris, but may also be used to stimulate any other part of the female body or that of a man’s.

The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker than a pencil). They often have an interior battery (or two) which powers a small electric motor. Sometimes the battery power and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by way of a wire. sex toys suppliers This motor is fitted with a small, out of balance, weight attached to the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator right into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.

With a vibrator that has a controller, because the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both rate and strength of vibration. Both strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you discover the sex toy. The very best effect will not be as strong so when fast as possible. The optimum settings may well change as your amount of excitement builds. To get the very best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.

Different vibrators could have different characteristics and you may well find you prefer one combination much more than another as well as your preference may even vary based on which part of your body you are stimulating.

More recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not merely the static control of power/speed but also permit you to select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.

Additionally, there are other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.

Other Powered Sex Toys

There are some sex toys that use other ways to provide mechanical stimulation. These usually be determined by a motor that makes the sex toy continually change its shape which provides sort of rotational movement or helps it be move back and forth. The trunk and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air pump rather than motor. The movements have been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that ‘penetrate’ the vagina and mouth simulators to provide a man a ‘blow job’.

On a bigger scale and many more expensive, you can find ‘sex machines’ that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.

Combination Sex Toys

So far we’ve covered vibrating, moving and thrusting sex toys. Because you can have guessed they are all offered in a bewildering selection of combinations.

A common combination in lots of ‘Rabbit Style’ vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.

Many adult toys add varying textures with their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator could have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.

Sensation Change Sex Toys

Some sex toys rather than provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.

For instance there are a number of sleeves to put over the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.

There are rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man’s erection and in addition changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may provide a man’s partner greater sensations during penetration.

There are a wide variety of lubricants that can significantly change the feel of sex.

You can find PVC and Polyurethane bed linens which are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.

Why Use A MASTURBATOR?

An excellent question is: why do people work with a sex toy? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.

Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), sex toys can drive the imagination (being taken by way of a machine), provide variety (new ways to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences not possible with ‘normal body parts’ (particularly vibrating adult toys and electro-stimulation).

Where To Start

If you have not tried a masturbator before and don’t yet have an idea of what you might like, try among the simpler vibrators first. Almost certainly you will enjoy the experience and then begin to wonder what other delights can be found with more sophisticated vibrators and other sex toys …